Masturbation is awesome for so many reasons! Whether you’re single or have a partner, indulging in self-loving from time to time can do wonders. Pleasing yourself not only helps you learn more about your body and what works for it but it also helps relieve stress, relaxes your mind, drives away cramps and makes you a happier person. If you haven’t tried masturbating yet or don’t know how to do it right, here are our tips.
Get into the mood: Getting aroused with your partner doesn’t take much. But, a DIY session needs a proper ambience especially if you’re new to this. Start by locking the door of your room and making yourself comfortable on the bed. Switch off your phone and other distractions. Watch a steamy video or read an erotic novel to get in the mood.
Focus: To reach the peak when you’re doing it with yourself you need to focus. Put some scented candles in your room as they will help cut out distractions. Once you feel mentally uncluttered, fill your mind with sexy thoughts. Think of someone you find attractive and want to get dirty with. This will instantly turn you on.
Bubbly bath: The bath tub is a great place to awaken your senses. Soak yourself in a bubbly bath and watch all your muscle tension dissolve. You will be more responsive to touch when you’re relaxed and at ease. Start by slowly massaging your inner thighs and run your hand up your tummy and over your breasts. Rub your hand slowly over your body. This will help you find your erogenous zones. Use your fingers to learn what type of pressure, speed and stroke works for you.
Hit the high note: Use your fingers to pleasure yourself down there. There’s no one method that works for everyone but there are few tried and tested tricks. One of them is The Figure Eight technique. Use one or more fingers to glide up, over and around your clitoral area, tracing the number eight. The sensation will be super blissful.
Bring in the toys: When you’re riding solo, nothing provides stimulation as strong and consistent as the vibrator. Bring in the vibrator when you’re aroused and ready to pleasure yourself. Begin by working the vibrator over your clitoris. Rub it gently over your clitoris area. Keep switching between speeds to keep things interesting.
Use some lube: If you’re having a problem achieving orgasm or want to heighten the pleasure, use some lubricant. There are two types of lubes available – water based and oil based. So make sure to experiment with each to find out which you prefer and which helps to give you the strongest orgasm.
Hit your G-spot: A lot of women prefer G-spot orgasm to regular clitoral orgasm. G-spot orgasm can be intense provided you find the G-spot. Your G-spot appears and enlarges when you are aroused. Rub, stroke and flick your G-spot for a blissful orgasmic trip.
Explore all body parts: Don’t just get stuck down there but explore other body parts too. Run your hands along your body, stroke areas that are more responsive to touch than others. Touch your lips, neck, belly button, inner thighs and breasts as these are your erogenous spots.
Fantasise: Fantasising can double your pleasure while masturbating. So, don’t be afraid to think of your sexual fantasies. Think of anything that arouses you and gets you in the mood. Keep thinking about it while you pleasure yourself to get a strong and mind-bending orgasm.
Do it together: Once you’re comfortable with your body, try masturbating with your partner. Allowing him to watch while you please yourself will be arousing for him as well as you. You can also keep a mirror next to you while you masturbate, and watch yourself. It’s sure to turn you on further.
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